Hadith #31

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‏ ‏حَدَّثَنَا ‏ ‏عَبْدُ الْوَهَّابِ بْنُ عَبْدِ الْمَجِيدِ ‏ ‏عَنْ ‏ ‏أَيُّوبَ ‏ ‏عَنْ ‏ ‏نَافِعٍ ‏ ‏أَنَّ ‏ ‏ابْنَ عُمَرَ ‏ ‏طَلَّقَ امْرَأَتَهُ وَهِيَ حَائِضٌ فَسَأَلَ ‏ ‏عُمَرُ ‏ ‏النَّبِيَّ ‏ ‏صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ‏ ‏فَأَمَرَهُ أَنْ يُرَاجِعَهَا ثُمَّ يُمْهِلَهَا حَتَّى تَحِيضَ حَيْضَةً أُخْرَى ثُمَّ يُمْهِلَهَا حَتَّى تَطْهُرَ ثُمَّ يُطَلِّقَهَا قَبْلَ أَنْ يَمَسَّهَا فَتِلْكَ الْعِدَّةُ الَّتِي أَمَرَ اللَّهُ أَنْ تُطَلَّقَ لَهَا النِّسَاءُ وَكَانَ ‏ ‏ابْنُ عُمَرَ ‏ ‏إِذَا سُئِلَ عَنْ الرَّجُلِ يُطَلِّقُ امْرَأَتَهُ وَهِيَ حَائِضٌ يَقُولُ إِمَّا أَنْتَ طَلَّقْتَهَا وَاحِدَةً أَوْ اثْنَتَيْنِ فَإِنَّ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ ‏ ‏صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ ‏ ‏أَمَرَهُ أَنْ يُرَاجِعَهَا ثُمَّ يُمْهِلَهَا حَتَّى تَحِيضَ حَيْضَةً أُخْرَى ثُمَّ يُمْهِلَهَا حَتَّى تَطْهُرَ ثُمَّ يُطَلِّقَهَا إِنْ لَمْ يُرِدْ ‏ ‏إِمْسَاكَهَا ‏ ‏وَإِمَّا أَنْتَ طَلَّقْتَهَا ثَلَاثًا فَقَدْ عَصَيْتَ اللَّهَ تَعَالَى فِيمَا أَمَرَكَ بِهِ مِنْ طَلَاقِ امْرَأَتِكَ وَبَانَتْ مِنْكَ وَبِنْتَ مِنْهَا ‏

English Translation

It was narrated — via 'Abd al-Wahhab ibn 'Abd al-Majid, from Ayyub, from Nafi' — that Ibn 'Umar (رضي الله عنهما) divorced his wife while she was menstruating. 'Umar asked the Prophet ﷺ, who commanded him to take her back, then wait until she menstruates another period, then wait until she becomes pure, then divorce her before touching her — for that is the waiting period during which Allah commanded that women be divorced. Ibn 'Umar, when later asked about a man who divorces his wife while menstruating, would say: 'If you divorced her once or twice — the Messenger of Allah ﷺ commanded [Ibn 'Umar] to take her back, wait until she menstruates another period, wait until she becomes pure, then divorce her if he does not wish to keep her. But if you divorced her three times, you have disobeyed Allah (تعالى) in what He commanded you regarding the divorce of your wife — and she has become irrevocably separated from you.'

Reference: Musnad Ahmad, Book 14, Hadith 31

Sunnah.com ref: Musnad Ahmad 5069

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