Hadith #4
Chapter: The Book of Good Manners
كتاب الأدب
Arabic Text
وعن أبي سعيد الخدري رضي الله عنه
قال: كان رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم أشد حياء من العذراء في خدرها، فإذا رأى شيئياً يكرهه عرفناه في وجهه. ((متفق عليه)) .
Isnad Chain
أبو سعيد الخدري
English Translation
Abu Sa'id Al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that messenger of Allah (ﷺ) was even shier than a virgin behind her veil. When he saw something which he disliked, we could perceive it on his face..
Quran References
Commentary (Sharh)
IslamWiki Explanation — IslamWiki Scholarly Team
This hadith highlights that the Prophet ﷺ was 'shier than a virgin behind her veil' — the most intense description of shyness imaginable for the Arab audience. Yet this same shyness did not prevent the Prophet ﷺ from teaching, leading, commanding armies, or correcting people. This demonstrates the key distinction scholars make: praiseworthy hayaa restrains from sins and inappropriate behavior, not from righteous duties. Ibn Allan explains that this hadith provides the model — we take the Prophet ﷺ as our example of what true hayaa looks like in practice. Despite his intense shyness, he fulfilled every obligation without hesitation. Imam al-Nawawi uses this hadith to show that hayaa is not weakness but strength — the most complete human being who ever lived also had the most intense hayaa. The companion Abu Sa'id al-Khudri narrates that the Prophet's hayaa was visible and people could see it on his face when he encountered something he disapproved of.
Reference: Riyadh al-Salihin, Book 1, Hadith 4
Sunnah.com ref: riyadh-salihin 4
Islam.wiki ID: IWH-66163