Hadith #4

Ungraded

Chapter: The Book of Good Manners

كتاب الأدب

Arabic Text

Chain of Narration (Isnad)

وعن أبي سعيد الخدري رضي الله عنه

Body (Matn)

قال: كان رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم أشد حياء من العذراء في خدرها، فإذا رأى شيئياً يكرهه عرفناه في وجهه. ((متفق عليه)) .

Isnad Chain

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أبو سعيد الخدري

English Translation

Abu Sa'id Al-Khudri (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that messenger of Allah (ﷺ) was even shier than a virgin behind her veil. When he saw something which he disliked, we could perceive it on his face..

Commentary (Sharh)

IslamWiki Explanation — IslamWiki Scholarly Team

This hadith highlights that the Prophet ﷺ was 'shier than a virgin behind her veil' — the most intense description of shyness imaginable for the Arab audience. Yet this same shyness did not prevent the Prophet ﷺ from teaching, leading, commanding armies, or correcting people. This demonstrates the key distinction scholars make: praiseworthy hayaa restrains from sins and inappropriate behavior, not from righteous duties. Ibn Allan explains that this hadith provides the model — we take the Prophet ﷺ as our example of what true hayaa looks like in practice. Despite his intense shyness, he fulfilled every obligation without hesitation. Imam al-Nawawi uses this hadith to show that hayaa is not weakness but strength — the most complete human being who ever lived also had the most intense hayaa. The companion Abu Sa'id al-Khudri narrates that the Prophet's hayaa was visible and people could see it on his face when he encountered something he disapproved of.

Reference: Riyadh al-Salihin, Book 1, Hadith 4

Sunnah.com ref: riyadh-salihin 4

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